Category Archives: Love and marriage

The how and why of a happy marriage and family in five minutes.

Father’s DayMore Married. More Husband. More Father. More Man.Available at Amazon.comMichael McNally of The Dream Executive interviewed me recently for his podcast. The full episode will be available soon, but here’s a short clip that’s near and dear to my … Continue reading

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Digging into a sexy love poem to get a handle on active, imagic, metaphor-rich writing.

My favorite job title is Poet. Why? No license, no union, no credentialism. If you can learn, you will. If you can’t, you won’t waste my time. I grow regardless.Forgive me my vanity, but I want to dig into the … Continue reading

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Where have all the good men gone? You’ll find them where their values are appreciated and admired.

Me from May 2013, fortified by Church today: Stand by your man. Things fall apart. What happens when they do? We walk our dogs late at night at Rio Vista Park in suburban Phoenix. I love to go past the … Continue reading

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Underfathered children? Check. Childless adults? Check. #Feminism is working just fine, thank you.

Yesterday’s Church of Splendor homily: Contra Ayaan Hirsi Ali, #Feminism is working just as intended: Unfathering children and fostering dependency on the state. And there is more to come…

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Ideas from The 21 Convention and the answer to every married man’s prayers: Making more love more often.

My life my way. That’s why.To the right is the business-card image I used on my first slide from my #t21c presentation, a personal mission statement, of sorts. I could do decent stand-up on the idea of being a poet, … Continue reading

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Livin’ on Tampa time: Women need Mars, the chaste chase and the primum bonum that is the self.

Me in Tampa: DISC, love, poker and the irreplaceable self-responsible man.I depart for Tampa tomorrow to speak at The 21 Convention. I plan to talk about some of the ideas in Shyly’s delight, especially DISCing everyone for fun and profit. … Continue reading

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Yuppie love: The egoist’s guide to mastering the art of frolicking naked with the one you love.

The absolute last people anyone should turn to for advice about mammalian empathy are the fanatically Cautious advocates of reptilian empathy strategies – scientists. Empathy for the orgasm is most definitely an empathy for the machine, but people are not … Continue reading

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Why do people get trapped in awful relationships? Because they think they’re fixing what’s wrong.

Find the love for life your dog never lives a day without at Amazon.com:Shyly’s delight: Work, play and love like a Labrador.This came up in email, but I’m sharing it here in the hope that it might help people learn … Continue reading

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Love among The Unfallen at every wavelength of heaven’s light.

Today is the last day to get The Unfallen – my rom-com novel with real romance and real comedy – for free. Invest yourself in this extract, if you like, or just snag the book while it’s free. This is … Continue reading

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Devin’s devotion: “We are locked together, locked like the links of that chain.”

The Unfallen, a novel of love and indomitability, available at Amazon.com.Loki’s Love Letters are prime choice LadyPorn for this reason: I am writing a man’s kind of love-making from a man’s point of view – while tickling every fancy that … Continue reading

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A comic romp of love, sex and philosophy: My Kindle novel The Unfallen is FREE right now.

The Unfallen, a novel of love and indomitability, available at Amazon.com.My novel The Unfallen is now available as an Amazon Kindle eBook. Here is the way I blurbed the book when I wrote it: The Unfallen is a very sexy … Continue reading

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How does a man express his love? With teasing, torment, pushing, crowding and obstruction – that’s how.

The love of families is expressed with pushing, crowding and contrived annoyances. You call that love? I sure do. From Sunday’s Church of Splendor service, Loki’s the trickster’s humor as an expression of storgic love.

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We all owe our freedom to fatherhood, but you owe your everything to your parents.

If you’re like me, you never thank your parents enough for all the gifts they gave you when you were growing up, but your humanity itself is the greatest treasure they conferred upon you.Photo by: ErinI have a lot on … Continue reading

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What do you call an anti-family libertarian like Stefan Molyneux? A Marxist.

“If you want to perform the greatest service for political liberty, all you have to do is turf all of your unsatisfying relationships. Parents, siblings, spouse, it doesn’t matter.” –Stefan MolyneuxI do not wish to dwell on matters Molyneuvian, but … Continue reading

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Parenting is coercion, so how can a consistent libertarian get the diapers changed?

Given a rational choice, which he cannot have and will not have for many years, no baby would choose to writhe in his own waste. But this does not make changing his diaper any less an act of physical force … Continue reading

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